You’ve engineered the perfect mask to survive life.
But it’s starting to crack
You are the smart one, the strong one. Or maybe you are the ideal couple. Either way, you fool most around you, and few ever look at you and consider, “What’s wrong?”
Only there is so much wrong...so much buried so deep you could scream for hours and still not a sound to be heard...
Even so, you are also resilient. You have done some introspection and experienced personal growth over time. Congrats! You have found how to “MacGyver” your way through relationships and life, which has worked well enough for long enough.
However, those solutions are now becoming weapons used against you.
They isolate you from the life you’ve worked so hard to build. If something does not change, you fear there will be an inevitable wreckage in your career, your relationship, and the world you’ve so carefully held together with duct tape for what feels like a lifetime.
Can I let you in on a secret?
You are not exaggerating, faking, or alone.
Yes, you have coping tools, resources, and a community of support that others may not. Or, maybe you are overly self-reliant because relationships proved unsafe at best and a liability at worst. Either way, you secretly hate that you are so good at surviving and feel ashamed to admit you need help. Here’s the truth... you are allowed to admit merely surviving life is not good enough. In fact, “just surviving” feels intolerable. You have faked it for so long. You have permission to WANT more, to NEED more.
I can help you...
Humaning Better
You realize you’ve come as far as you can on your own with the makeshift tools collected along the way. Individually or as a couple, it is time to find customized tools uniquely suited for your life and relationships. You are ready to dig deeper and prepared to put in the work to create change aligned with how you envision a thriving life to look and feel.
Sexual Exploration & Growth
From the time you are born, you hear conflicting, stigmatizing, and often shaming messages about sexuality and one’s erotic identity. However, as you mature, you realize these messages only limit you personally and restrict authenticity in relationships. Every time you try to break away, you find yourself overcome by shame and overwhelmed by how intricate and complex sex and eroticism can be. You are ready to evolve and grow. You merely need a guide to lead the way.